Saturday, December 15, 2007
On My Own
I was shocked to say the least. I never expected my parents to help me financially. They are of modest means with my youngest sister still in college at a UC. However, the least I expected was emotional support. What about feeling pride that their daughter is taking responsibility for her own future? That she's making an adult decision?
This illustrates one again the chasm that exists between traditional Chinese culture and the American way. When I moved out at the age of 25 into my own apartment, my parents were upset. My dad did not speak to me for 6 months. When I told my boss, who's Caucasian, he thought their reaction was quite odd. He flipped cartwheels when his children moved out.
In some ways, my parents are surprisingly modern. They know their way around BitComet and want personalized ringtones on their cell phones, unlike many of their peers. In other ways, they are still "stuck in the mud". Like paying for a $18, 353 new car, embarrassingly, all in cash. They are not the stereotypical Chinese parents, never pushing us kids to become doctors, lawyers or play piano, only to do well in school and become an upstanding member of the workforce. On the other hand, they adhere to the old ways, especially concerning gender roles.
When it comes down to it, they object to me buying a house by myself because I'm female. In their way of thinking, a man should provide for me and it's silly for me to provide for myself. This is incomprehensible to me and, frankly, unacceptable. This is just another piece of the yoke I'm slaving off on my personal journey of independence. Sigh, it's tough to be the eldest daughter of first generation immigrants. I'm paving the road for my younger sisters and breaking my parents in for them. Lucky dogs. If and when my sisters decide to buy on their own, I bet my parents will barely bat an eye.
In light of my parents' revelation, I'm cutting up my credit cards and resolve to be less generous with my spending. I can't count on anyone but myself to achieve the dream of a house all my own.
Monday, November 26, 2007
On the front lines of the great American mortgage workout, tens of thousands of borrowers are in trouble and looking for relief. Washington has offered advice about what lenders should do, and influential groups that counsel low-income borrowers are ratcheting up pressure on Citigroup and others to offer struggling homeowners more favorable terms on their existing loans — even borrowers whose finances seem hopeless.
In many ways, the pressures Citigroup faces mirror those on other mortgage servicers, whose job it is to collect monthly payments and pass them on to mortgage investors. Servicers are responsible for protecting the financial interests of those investors. But they also have become targets for criticism that the mortgage industry isn't doing enough to clean up problems arising from years of careless lending to subprime borrowers with shaky credit.
Citigroup, however, may have a bigger mess on its hands than many. In September, as the U.S. housing crisis deepened, it bought servicing rights to a problematic $45 billion mortgage portfolio. It announced a commitment to "help distressed borrowers remain in their homes," working with Acorn Housing Corp., a nonprofit group that counsels low- and moderate-income home buyers. But with 46,000 borrowers already in default, Citigroup is struggling with the magnitude of the portfolio's problems, and its relations with Acorn are fraying.
Thursday, October 4, 2007
Taking Stock
MLS #: 70099271
This was a halfplex I visted with a friend during an open house and I ranted on this blog about the overwhelming scent candles the agent used to drive us out the door. Well, it seems like it worked. An article in the Sacramento Bee featured its owner who, based on Money Magazine's designating Holland, Michigan as one of thebest places to live, decided to sell her home and leave Sacatomato. Looks like she ain't leaving anytime soon.
7030 Havenhurst Drive
MLS #: 70043176 (Pending)
Asking Price: $269,000
Previous Asking price: $299,000 (June 2007)
Price Cut: $30,000 (-10%)
7444 Spicewood Dr. (Update)
MLS #: 70100557
Asking Price: $289,000
Previous Asking Price: $309,000
Price Cut: Still not enough
I've always thought that this house was cute. Seemed well-kept and in a good location near the Bel-Air shopping center where I used to live when I rented in the Pocket. When this house went into pending a few months ago, I thought, "Who's the crazy person paying over $300K for 982 square feet?" Looks like nobody was that crazy. The seller really isn't trying to sell his/her house now, are they?
799 Crestwater Lane
MLS: Sold 9/27/2007
Asking Price: $239,000
Old Asking Price: $275,000
Price Cut: $36,000 (-13%)
This is a nice 2/2 1201 sq/ft condo. It had high ceilings, nice detail and spacious rooms. The only bad thing was the separate kitchen. It finally sold, after a $36,000 reduction, selling for less than $200 a sq/ft. I think it might have been listed at a higher asking price at one time too but I'm not sure. It's been so long since it first went on the market. I definitely remember the $275,000 price tag though and the chase down to the bottom. At one time, I thought, "If it goes down to $250K, I'll take a look." Then the market soured, my interest waned. Next thing I know, it's sold at at what is not a bad price for the area. I'll take it as good tidings.
Another interesting sign of the times is dearth of applications for a recent job opening at my work place. I was screening the candidates and over half of them were loan officers, mortgage brokers and real estate agents. Good luck to all of them. Posting an opening for a stable job is like throwing a bone to a den of hungry lions.
Tuesday, September 4, 2007
Bailout Talk
Is America really pro-bailout? Los Angeles Times - According to a recent Fox News poll conducted by Opinion Dynamics, there's 70% opposition to a taxpayer sub-prime bailout
Major bailout is unlikely on sub-prime mortgages. The Hill - There doesn’t appear to be sufficient appetite in Congress for rescuing borrowers with taxpayer funds. (Damn right there shouldn't be!)
Will Congress bail out lenders? MarketPlace radio segment with Steve Tripoli - What I'm concerned about is that Congress is going to engage in a wholesale bailout, with taxpayers' money, of lenders and borrowers who've made very bad decisions.
Sunday, July 29, 2007
Every Penny Counts
When Janey Lee and Pablo Agüero were struggling freelance Web designers, buying an apartment in Manhattan seemed like a dream, one clouded by credit-card debt, student loans that had to be repaid and the bills for their wedding. Their combined salaries of just over $100,000 qualified them for a mortgage, but it took a lot more for them to come up with the down payment. In a city synonymous with luxury and spending, Ms. Lee, 30, and Mr. Agüero, 35, decided to do without. They gave up smoking to cut costs, they stopped meeting friends after work for beers, they didn’t buy new clothes, and they stashed away tax refunds and as much of their earnings as possible. Whenever they wanted to buy drinks, gadgets or cookware, they asked each other: “Do I want an iPod or a house? Do I want a latte or a house?”
Wednesday, July 18, 2007
Plankton Theory Revisted
“Inland Southern California’s home sales last month were the worst in a decade in Riverside County...We have seen rising foreclosure activity through the year and no sign it is done climbing, and we are now seeing some real steep declines in prices. It is very difficult to say where bottom is,’ said Andrew LePage, analyst for DataQuick."
The news that Forbes ranks Sacramento as the third riskiest housing market in the country - and the riskiest investment in California-quickens my heart. Sacramento's share of adjustable-rate mortgages exceeds 50 percent. Which means that the market has nowhere to go but down.
Monday, July 9, 2007
Window Shopping II
Of the Beazer collections, the only one that made an impression was the Discovery collection, new "pull apart" townhouses connected only by the garages. Their website still show them as single-family homes. It was cheaper at $181.75 per sq foot. My friend and I both loved the 1,568 3bd/2bath plan at $284,990. It had a great open floor 1st floor that wowed us at the door and nice sized rooms. The drawbacks were a tiny postage sized yard and an alley garage. With two dogs, I have to have a nice sized yard. Sure, my pookies are toy poodles but they still need to run. The HOA is $83 and the Mello Roos is $120.
The Carriages had horrible floor plans with the kitchen completely separate from the rest of the house and dinky rooms. Isla del Lago was another story. Though halfplexes, the models had huge backyards and represented a good value. The largest plan, the 3bd/3bath San Miguel, could be had for $345,365 for 2100 sq foot, working out to $164 a sq foot. Out of our price range even though the per sq foot price is lower and too large for a single homeowner. But..but..but...that didn't stop us from lusting for all that space. The HOA is $35 and Mello Roos is $138.
It will be interesting to compare these prices in six months. Every builder we questioned said their properties were selling briskly (Beazer's the Landing community is sold out for example) and implied that price was going to go up and inventory down. If I were in the market right now, I'd be tempted to look seriously at the Beazer Discovery townhouses and the Isla del Lago halfplexes. Good for me that I don't have the down payment now and can't be pushed to jump the gun.
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
Top Ten Signs of an Asian Household
- In the foyer, there’s an altar to the ancestors. It’s typically red-stained woods with red blinking lights.
- Open the dishwasher and it’s full of mismatched Tupperware.
- The backyard is mostly concrete.
- There’s a gas range outside for cooking.
- Large winter melons grow in the backyard.
- The garage can double as a supermarket. Stockpiling is an art.
- All the walls are white, white, white.
- The bathroom seems remodeled, but in different styles and shades of tile.
- Pairs of shoes line the entrance to the house.
- The property has a gate, fence or some other impediment blocking direct access to the house.
Sunday, June 24, 2007
Window Shopping
The condos were a cheaper alternative. The two bedroom condo floor plan at Laguna Point had huge rooms and an added walk-in closet for each room, a nice touch. The front door, however, opened directly into a steep staircase up to the second floor. Instinctively, it didn't feel welcoming and was definitely a no-no in feng shui. I don't know many Asians who would buy a home with that layout. The other floor plans at Laguna Point had cramped bedrooms that felt claustrophobic. Laguna Oaks condos were nicely renovated from apartments into condos in the low 220K range. Definitely affordable, but with 216 units to be sold, we didn't feel the rush to purchase one. The salesperson said that the low price was only for the initial offering and may rise as time goes by. I doubt it and will check back in a year to see if it pans out that way.
The open houses we toured were in the Pocket area: three halfplexes and a house. The interesting point is that a halfplex that didn't look that inviting turned out to be our favorite while another halfplex that looked wonderful online was disappointing. It just honed in the fact that one needs to feel the physicality of a space to get a proper sense of whether it's a contender.
Oh, and one more thing we learned. If you want to have a successful open house, don't perfume your house with an overpowering scent. The last open house we visited had an strong odor, a scent candle or something, that practically drove us out at the door.
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
A Kiwi Perspective on Housing
The rise in prices is worrisome because the international housing boom is a byproduct of globalization. The economic links act as a self-reinforcing network that has fueled the global surge in house prices but would also be likely to magnify the pain on the way down. The ripples would extend well beyond the housing markets. A fall in American house prices, for example, would crimp consumer spending - and free-spending Americans have supported growth in many export-minded nations. If house prices drop and American consumers are forced to tighten their belts, buying fewer imports, China and other nations would have to slow their dollar investments, driving interest rates higher and higher. That could hurt housing markets from Paris to Shanghai to Auckland.
Wednesday, June 6, 2007
Interest Rates to Hold Steady
Thursday, May 31, 2007
The Human Face of Foreclosure
For decades, the 5100 block of West Outer Drive in Detroit has been a model of middle-class home ownership, part of an urban enclave of well-kept Colonial residences and manicured lawns. But on a recent spring day, locals saw something disturbing: dandelions growing wild on several properties.
"When I see dandelions, I worry," says Sylvia Hollifield, an instructor at Michigan State University who has lived on the block for more than 20 years.Ms. Hollifield's concern is well-founded. Her neighbors are losing interest in their lawns because they're losing their homes -- a result of the recent boom in "subprime" mortgage lending. Over the past several years, seven of the 26 households on the 5100 block have taken out subprime loans, typically aimed at folks with poor or patchy credit.
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Buyers a Rare Breed
Now that it's done, Joi Bess couldn't be happier about selling her Rancho Cordova house and buying a bigger one in Folsom.She closed escrow in April on the first anniversary of a new marriage and blended family of eight. "It worked, and we're reaping the benefits already in a fantastic house and fantastic area," she says.
In what's proving to be a second straight year of slowed sales and falling prices in many neighborhoods, that closing makes Bess a hero to the Sacramento region's real estate trade. She is a buyer.
Monday, May 28, 2007
All-Time High Prices
When I was 10 or 11, it certainly was a great way to get pocket change for snacks. Money was tight and us kids didn’t get allowances. I remember scavenging the flea market garbage cans on the weekends while my parents worked their stall. My dad even made a special pole with the hook at the end so I could really dig in. It’s not exactly a fond memory. The days were really hot, the garbage smelly and the cans sticky and hard to flatten beneath our child sized sneakers. I would have been embarrassed to be seen by any of my classmates or friends. One indelible image that pops up is that of me and my sister, aged ten and five, both with poles and garbage bags in hand standing next to my mother, who had taken a break to find us and was holding my baby sister, a toddler on her hip. A white man with a soda saw us and deliberately made a beeline for us, sidestepping several garbage bins, and placed the can directly in my bag. I wonder if what he saw was a brown family on the edge of poverty. Looking back, I wonder about my parents’ decision to let their ten and five year-old daughters roam around scavenging cans on their own but longer feel shame or embarrassment. It is these long-forgotten memories involving my earliest experiences in how hard it is to earn money that influence how I view money today. My youngest sister who luckily grew up as our family prospered, I feel, has a much more careless attitude toward money. ($100 for a two piece swim suit!!!) She’s has decidedly middle-class tastes while my low-income inner-self consciousness has become more prominent since the home-buying obsession started. I used to roll my eyes when my mother marched into the grocery store to demand a 30 cent price difference after discovering an error on the receipt. Now, I’m right there along with her demanding the same thing.
Saturday, May 26, 2007
Bought a New Car
While fighting a very serious bug, I managed to buy a new car--a Honda Fit Sport, one of the new lines of relatively inexpensive subcompact cars with good mileage like the Toyota Yaris. In a word, they are cute. The Honda Fit kind of looks like a little bulldog, short and rounded. Anyway, "raising" a car, as the Chinese idiom goes that likens the cost of a car to the cost of raising a child, will put a kink in my house buying scheme. Car payment, insurance, gas and maintenance will definitely add up as well as the attendant costs in wanting to go out more in my cute new car. Nevertheless, I'm looking forward to when the car arrives in 3 weeks. These cars are in short supply. I vetted 10 dealerships and still had to special order the car at MSRP. One thing I refused to do was to pay the dealership markup.
It may be a combination of being ill (still) and the beginning of summer, but the urgency to buy a home, or at least to track the housing bubble, has faded. What will happen will happen but in the meantime...I got a cool new car!
Thursday, May 24, 2007
Thursday, May 17, 2007
Affordable Sac of Tomatoes
The Sacramento region is the second most affordable area in the state for first-time homebuyers, according to a report released Thursday by the California Association of Realtors. In Greater Sacramento, 43 percent of households could afford to buy an entry level home, up from 40 percent last year. The first-time buyer median price was $310,670, with a minimum qualifying income of $62,640. The percentage of households who could afford to buy an entry-level home in California stood at 25 percent in the first quarter, down slightly from 26 percent for the same period a year ago.
Wednesday, May 16, 2007
Harbinger of Doom
The drop caught economists by surprise. Many had expected a more modest 3.1% decline. In March, building permits actually increased 1.8% after a large fall in February. The dismal figure underscores the massive correction currently taking place in the housing market, which has been plagued by suprime fallout and inventory gluts this year. Homebuilders, eager to burn through their oversized inventories, are now holding back on new building permits for future construction.
Tuesday, May 15, 2007
Advice on "Black Mole"
Dear Barry,
We bought our home about one year ago. At the time, our home inspector found some minor defects, but nothing was mentioned about black mole. After moving in, we noticed some black stains in the closets. But then the rainy season came, and we found black mole on most of the upstairs walls, especially in the corners. What upsets us most is that the former owners never mentioned a word about black mole. In fact, their disclosure statement said everything was OK. We've tried washing the mole off, but it just returns. What can we do legally, and how do we get rid of the mole? --ReneeDear Renee,
Mold (not "mole") has been widely publicized as a significant health hazard and should have been disclosed by the sellers, assuming that they were aware of it. Your discovery immediately after closing escrow indicates that they should have known. If they deny knowledge of any mold infection, you would have to prove that they knew about it, and that could be very difficult. Mold disclosure is generally regarded as outside the scope of a professional home inspection and is routinely disclaimed in most home-inspection contracts. However, when evidence of mold is unavoidably visible on exposed surfaces, failure to make some manner of disclosure is hardly justifiable for a competent home inspector. The least an inspector could say would be, "Black stains noted on upstairs walls. A professional mold survey is recommended." The growth of mold is caused by excessive moisture conditions, often accompanied by a lack of adequate ventilation. What you presently see on wall surfaces may be an indication of additional mold within the wall and ceiling cavities. Therefore, mere cleaning is not the way to resolve the problem. To determine the extent of the mold
infection in your home, have a mold survey performed by a qualified professional.
Sunday, May 13, 2007
Realtor's Six Percent
For realtors, the six percent commission is sacrosanct. It's remained in place, even as the price of homes has quadrupled over the past 25 years.
But as correspondent Lesley Stahl reports, things are beginning to change. What happened to travel agents, stock brokers and book sellers – the encroachment of the Internet – is beginning to affect real estate agents. And the sacred six percent is under assault from online discounters.
Thursday, May 10, 2007
Dream House Sold?
A house that I've been monitoring on MLS went into a pending sale recently. I'm sad because this well could have been my dream house! It was the right price, was in a good location, had 2 bed, 2bath, big yard, 1,300 sq feet and looked very well-kept. Now I'm lamenting that I wasn't ready to buy yet. Sometimes I think lurking on MLS is bad because it feeds my house lust. My motto in my head of "Wait, waaaiittt" is drowned out by the impulse to buy now. Good thing that a financial barrier of actually having very little money keeps my big eyes in check.
My NetWorth IQ
The idea behind it is that its a personal finance social network hybrid. People can not only track their net worth but also share the information with their friends/strangers on the Internet. I'm not sure how prudent that is (again, the paranoia) but it's an interesting idea. I've signed up for an account but am keeping the information from the public for now.
You can peek at my net worth . According to CNN Money, there is a disparity between what my net worth should be according to my age and income bracket. Average adults under 30 have a net worth under $5,000. I'm way ahead there. However, for my income bracket, I should have much more net worth in the 100K range. Looks like I have a lot to go.
Friday, May 4, 2007
Bailout for Borrowers
It's a weird facet of American society, which better rewards those who try to live the American dream and fail miserably than those who live within their means. In the end, those left carrying a fat debt, bad credit scores and lingering regrets are as much a mirror of our system as all the happy homeowners who make their mortgage payments month after month.
Thursday, May 3, 2007
Monkey Reaching for Branches
We may have life and liberty. But the pursuit of happiness isn't going so well. As a country, we are richer than ever. Yet surveys show that Americans are no happier than they were 30 years ago. The key problem: We aren't very good at figuring out what will make us happy. We constantly hanker after fancier cars and fatter paychecks -- and, initially, such things boost our happiness. But the glow of satisfaction quickly fades and soon we're yearning for something else.
This Interactive House Value map shows whether house values are overvalued based on historical data. Statistically normal house values are determined with consideration to house prices, interest rates, household incomes, population densities, and historical premiums or discounts paid to live in certain areas over time.
Wednesday, May 2, 2007
In Debt We Trust
With things not going so well for them lately on other fronts, Republican politicos have taken to emphasizing a hale U.S. economy -- though that is something few Americans feel in their own pocketbooks. Some reasons for those clashing perceptions are explored in vet documentarian Danny Schechter's "In Debt We Trust," which portrays a nation hobbled and preyed upon by credit card companies and other lenders. When this borrowed-money bubble bursts, he suggests, another Great Depression could arrive.
Tuesday, May 1, 2007
I'm a Plankton!
Plankton, of course, are almost microscopic organisms that serve as food for higher life forms. Without plankton almost every fish and mammal in the sea could not survive, since most species depend upon other fish for their existence and plankton are the initial building blocks of the entire process. In the case of real estate, the plankton would be the first-time buyer (perhaps a young married couple) with a desire to own their own home but with very little capital to carry it off. When the time comes that they can’t pull it off – either through an inability to come up with a down payment, or to service the monthly mortgage – then the ‘plankton’ would disappear and the rapid escalation in housing prices would ease as well.
Monday, April 30, 2007
Dogs, Retirement and Foreclosure
Scott Burns’ new column on retirement realities is a good read. Summary: Americans don’t save enough and have overly optimistic expectations. Although saving for a house is a top priority, the need to put money away for the future also pulls at the purse strings. I’d rather pay the piper today when I’m young and healthy than later when I’m 80.
If there is a mythical god in charge of retirement, it would have to be Janus. Best known as the Roman god with two faces – one looking forward, one back – Janus was the master of beginnings and endings.The LA Times also had an interesting story today about a newbie trying to buy a foreclosed home. The auction arena is competitive with seasoned professionals who make a living off buying foreclosed homes. The process sure sounds intimidating.
You and I see this every month in magazines: advertisements for luxurious retirement condos in Florida and Arizona, world-girdling cruises and mind-boggling automobiles being enjoyed by energetic silver-haired seniors.
Editorial content looks the other way. It warns us of dementia, incipient poverty and the inevitability of long-term care.
Is it possible that retirement – for most people most of the time – is somewhere in between?
Many see trouble in falling home prices and rising foreclosures. Karen Krynen sees opportunity. So after dropping her two children off at preschool one day last month, Krynen headed for Los Angeles County Superior Court in Norwalk, where foreclosed houses were being auctioned on the steps outside.
Friday, April 27, 2007
Past Due
The Pull of Haley's Comet
I don’t even have that kind of money or kids or have sisters married to junkies but the episode struck such a chord that I immediately deleted the majority of the blog entries referring to my personal wealth (or lack thereof). In my Asian family, we are naturally reticent about money matters anyway so the TV episode just exposed my worst fears.
My original intent was to abandon this blog altogether until I had safely bought a house but I keep getting pulled back, kind of like the gravitational force of Haley’s comet. Let’s hope I post more than once in 70 years now. =P
Friday, March 16, 2007
A Town bulit on Subprime Loans
A town right on the default line
Wednesday, March 14, 2007
Pi Day and Free Wall Street Journal Access
Survey on workers living paycheck to paycheck:
http://bostonworks.boston.com/news/articles/2007/03/12/many_us_workers_live_paycheck_to_paycheck_survey/
So sad that more women than men can't live comfortably on their earnings and don't save as much. Do you live paycheck to paycheck? I do, but by choice and a very stringent savings plan.
Lessons a SFH learns at a home workshop: http://www.twincities.com/mld/twincities/living/special_packages/single_female_homeowner/16895105.htm
This is a new column I discovered that is about the viewpoint of one single female homeowner on the East coast.
Living in an Amsterdam Canal House: http://www.nytimes.com/2007/03/14/realestate/greathomes/14GH-2NDSUBAmsterdam.html?_r=1&ref=realestate&oref=slogin
It's always fun to see what kinds of home other people live in even though it might not be to everyone's taste.
Subprime Lending May Hit Capital: http://www.sacbee.com/103/story/137592.html
The old sacatomato isn't immune either.
Closing on a House, a Life Story Told in Art: http://www.nytimes.com/2007/03/14/nyregion/14artist.html?ref=nyregion
A pair of investors buy a house to renovate and gets a house full of art left behind by a previous owner. As said before, a house is not just a building, it's a home with pieces of people inside.
A subprime borrower's tale: http://money.cnn.com/2007/03/14/magazines/fortune/sanon.fortune/index.htm?postversion=2007031411
A personal tale of woe puts a qualitive face to the market's decline.
Back from the brink, poor no more: http://articles.moneycentral.msn.com/SavingandDebt/LearnToBudget/AmIPoorNotAnymore.aspx
Yay. I love happy endings about people in debt.
Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Buy Me: High Grunge
In this episode, spacey couple Sonya and Allan's hired their agent friend to sell their house full of cracks, clutter and an over-the-top Grecian-style bathroom before they go bankrupt paying for two houses. They impulsively bought a new dream home before selling their house in the city and can't make both mortgage payments. Now, six months later, they faced foreclosure. Desperate to sell, they weren't too happy with their agent/friend Perry who didn't even show up to several open houses. In the end, they accepted a low offer of $340,000. Had they not been in a number crunch, who knew what the house would have fetched?
Wednesday, January 31, 2007
Renovations gone overboard
Monday, January 29, 2007
HGTV Budget Breakers Buy Me
Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Listening to the Voices in Your Head
Last year, after surveying shoppers’ passions, behavioral economists at Carnegie Mellon University developed what they call the Tightwad-Spendthrift scale.
But this kind of survey reveals only what shoppers choose to confess. To find out more, the economists teamed with psychologists at Stanford to turn an M.R.I. machine into a shopping mall. They gave each experimental subject $40 in cash and offered the chance to buy dozens of gadgets, appliances, books, DVDs and assorted tchotchkes. Lying inside the scanner, first you’d see a picture of a product. Next you’d see its price, which was about 75 percent below retail. Then you’d choose whether or not you’d like a chance to buy it. Afterward, the researchers randomly chose a couple of items from their mall, and if you had said yes to either one, you bought it; otherwise you went home with the cash. The good news, for behavioral science, was that the researchers saw telltale patterns, which they report in the Jan. 4 issue of the journal Neuron.
Monday, January 15, 2007
Don't Hold Your Wee for a Wii
Friday, January 12, 2007
CNN Says I can afford Ohio, not California
"An annual income of about $85,000 is needed to afford median-priced homes; salaries have not seen modest gains, according to a study. In the New York metropolitan area, a $500,000 median-priced home required a $171,000 annual salary. The median-priced home in San Francisco, the most expensive U.S. market, was $759,000, requiring income of $260,000. In less-expensive Chicago, the median-priced home cost $254,000, requiring an $87,000 salary.
On the opposite end of the spectrum, Mansfield, Ohio, homes cost a median $85,000, requiring $29,118 in income."
Geez Louis. It seems like I can afford to live in Ohio. I like corn but not that much.
Thursday, January 11, 2007
Give More Than You Can
I usually never just hand money out to people who ask. However, I've been stranded before with no money and th fact that he had half of the amount needed worked in his favor. The rest of the $10 I handed over to our company's Foodlink drive. I just hadn't gotten around to donating and the deadline is today. And, the fact that I was one of the food drive coordinators made it embarassing that I hadn't added to the pot. In my defense, I was roped into the job on my first day here at my new job because nobody else wanted to do it. I remember being poor and getting canned food from charity. Lots of V8, corn, tomato soup and beans.
Wednesday, January 10, 2007
The Seed of Want
I can pinpoint the exact moment when I began lusting after a house of my own. After much screaming, angst and anger, my boyfriend and I had just broken up for the third time that year. Drowning in the tail end of our seven-year relationship, we took the next logical step: we got engaged and began house hunting. It made a crazy sort of sense at the time that a 30-year financial commitment built around brick and mortar would bind us together in a way that love and stardust couldn’t. I know. Don’t ask me what the hell I was thinking.
In 2005, the real estate market in
I was ambivalent about home ownership even though I was 26, had no debt and was vested in my job at a high-flying Public Affairs firm. Raised in a culture where a female child didn’t leave home until she married, the concept simply never entered my mind. I’d only barely begun to question tradition by moving out to an apartment of my own when I turned 25. (I’d stayed close to home for college) My parents didn’t speak to me for a year and still refer to the decision as the Aiya-Disgraceful-American-Daughter-Bring- Shame-to-Ancestors incident. Really.
M. and I had a great time looking at a half-dozen houses. I was intrigued not with the houses themselves but with the staged décor. They all looked like budget Martha Stewart on Prozac. People actually decorate powder rooms and make striped orange paint work? Who would have thunk? But, it still didn’t inspire me to part with close to half a mil. Until, that is, I saw the one house that made me go all gooey.
It was a two-story sandstone colored house built with soaring ceilings, rounded archways, a ridiculously spacious master bedroom suite and a gorgeous tiled bathroom with a whirlpool hot tub. Oh Lordy, the bathroom alone made my knees weak. The house was also full of secret nooks and crannies, unexpected, whimsical space that made you want to linger to enjoy the surprise and go around the corner to find the next discovery all at the same time. I fell deep in unexplainable, rushing-to-your-head, put-your-head-between-your-knees, Romeo-and-Juliet type love.
I purred in M’s ear, “This house is so sexy.” He looked at me with wide eyes, not fully comprehending. I’m usually the demure Asian girlfriend stereotype. I pushed M down on the master bedroom bed which, of course, was a sham display frame that almost collapsed under his weight. “I want to jump your bones. Right N.O.W,” I said throatily.
He drove us home very, very fast.
We didn’t buy the house. Our relationship came to its inevitable end just as the real estate bubble burst. I’m lucky that I wasn’t burdened with an inflated mortgage and a disgruntled man at the same time. But, the seed of want was definitely planted. The desire gnaws at me like a dog niggling at a bone.
This is the chronicle of my journey to become a single female with house.
Some women are stimulated by hormones, food, Prada, whatever. I salivate at the thought of an affordable, 3 bed/2 bath with hot tub. I’m weird but also one of the new women of this age. World, watch out.